If your boyfriend, partner, or husband used someone else’s money to buy you a gift, how would you feel? You might feel nothing—because you wouldn’t know. But knowing the truth, I’d say it’s pretty ugly.

Here’s the situation: A man buys roses for his wife, but he’s using the money she receives from her son every month.  What’s more concerning is that the receipt shows he purchased two bouquets of roses and two boxes of chocolates. We’re here, yet we have no idea what she actually received.

The funny thing? Last year, when he didn’t know how to get reimbursed, he only bought her a Valentine’s card—and I thought that was sweet. But ever since he figured out how to access her trust fund, he’s been spending $100 a week on things like Hershey’s chocolates and roses.
If your argument is that he’s poor and you want to support him—BE MY GUEST!!!  I’ve been doing it for over eight years, and trust me, I know him very well.

It’s going to be a challenge for him when he realizes there’s unlimited reimbursement available from her trust fund. It’s free money—he can buy anything and just hand over the receipt.

Most people try to ignore him because speaking badly about him also reflects on the person who married him. But I don’t want this ugly truth to die with me.